The Incredible Power Of A Compliment

“Everybody loves to be told they are pretty.”  A friend once told me that when I asked him why he kept playing golf with a competitive company. 

Here is what he knew, there is incredible power in a compliment.  In a positive sense, it can make people accomplish more than they ever dreamed possible.  In a negative sense, it can make people do destructive things such as leaving their families for lesser alternatives and damaging future generations.

I got some very nice compliments a person I respect today.  Here is are some truths about compliments that I was reminded of:

1. Compliments validate your efforts.
2. Compliments mean more coming from some people than others, especially those who are selective with praise.
3. Compliments should be specific.
4. Compliments should never come rarely.
5. Compliments are a sign of generosity.
6. Compliments are motivating and can sustain high performance.
7. Compliments make me temporarily forget any pain and frustration I’m feeling.
8. Compliments should never be used as manipulation.
9. Compliments are extremely well received when given publicly.
10. Compliments are desperately needed.

Husbands, a word of warning for you.  If you don’t compliment your wife, someone else with less than pure motives will.  Remember, everyone wants to be told they are pretty.

Leaders, have you given your team members the gift of a compliment lately? 

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