Opportunity does not equal obligation. It has been said in the sports world the best trades are often the ones not made. “I’ll have the usual” is what these teams said. The following are some guidelines I use to say “No” to certain opportunities which may come my way.
- My wife feels uncomfortable about the decision or we are not in agreement. God gives our wives a sixth sense about decision-making and I have learned the hard way the results of not listening to her protective counsel.
- The option does not allow my family to thrive. If the decision benefits me but forces my family to regress educationally, relationally, or spiritually, then we decline the opportunity. The only leadership model that is lasting is that of a servant leader. If the decision is made for selfish reasons or does not serve my family well, we must decline.
- What Does The Bible Say. What does God say about what I’m facing? Here’s what I know – Jesus Christ knows me better than I know myself and wants the best for me.
- Does It Align With My Core Values. This is very closely tied to the Bible. If the options we are considering don’t line up if who we are as a family and what we are trying to accomplish collectively, we decline.
- Does It Make Financial Sense. Whether it is purchasing a home, going into debt or not, or making a career choice, good decisions can be made using a logical foundation. Quick note, the best book on money ever written is the Bible. It is packed full of sound guidelines. Also, the best financial coaches I know are Joe Sangl and the team at I Was Broke. Now I’m Not. Check them out.
Many times a great decisions is bypassing opportunities which come our way. Your thoughts?
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