Earlier today, a friend and mine were discussing the components of a happy marriage.  I shared with him The Best Marriage (And Leadership) Advice I Ever Received.  He then proceeded to share with me a practical list of things he does to meet the basic needs of his wife.  For the record, he is a Godly man and an incredible husband and father so I took note.

After receiving this list, I knew I wanted to share this gold with you as well.

The following are The 12 Basic Needs Of A Wife.  The first seven provide your wife with a sense of security.

  1. She needs her husband to be a spiritual leader.
  2. She needs to know that she alone is meeting vital needs in your life.
  3. She needs to hear that you cherish and delight in her as a person.
  4. She needs your protection.
  5. She needs to know you are aware of her presence at all times.
  6. She needs quality time with you.
  7. She needs to see that you care about her growth and development.
  8. Affection (non-sexual).
  9. Conversation.
  10. Honesty & Openness.
  11. Financial support.
  12. Family commitment.

So husbands, how are you doing on this list?  Practice these 12 fundamentals and you are sure to have a happy marriage and meet the basic needs of your wife.

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