3 Things You Must Do To Become A Leader

Leadership isn’t just a title.  It is earned through moments that test your resolve, character, and ability to inspire others.  As told in this article, Real Madrid’s superstar midfielder Jude Bellingham’s performance against Valencia on January 5th is a masterclass in the heart and mindset required to become a leader.  His story from that chaotic night offers invaluable lessons for anyone striving to lead in their own arena.

3 Things You Must Do To Become A Leader

1. Rise Above Adversity

In the first half, Real Madrid trailed 1-0 to a Valencia team fighting relegation.  The pressure was immense, and mistakes compounded the challenge — a red card for Vinicius Junior for shoving an opponent, a Kylan Mbappe goal ruled out by video review, and Bellingham himself missed a crucial penalty.  For many, that moment would be deflating.  But leaders understand that failure isn’t final; it’s a stepping stone to greater things.

Instead of retreating, Bellingham pressed harder. He capitalized on a loose pass, took one decisive touch, and curled a stunning 95th-minute winner into the net.  Leaders don’t dwell on what went wrong — they stay focused on the mission and seize opportunities to make things right.

Adversity is inevitable, but your response defines your leadership.  As Bellingham said, “When you have this badge on your shirt, you can never give up.”  Whatever your “badge” is — your family, your team, or your business — carry it with pride and determination.

2. Inspire Through Action

Words can motivate, but actions galvanize.  Bellingham’s record 50 goal involvements in 65 games since joining Real Madrid speaks volumes about his consistency and reliability.  Even when he missed a penalty, his relentless effort inspired his teammates and electrified fans.

Leaders must lead by example, showing the kind of commitment and performance they expect from others.  Bellingham didn’t just want to be the best player on the field; he wanted to show his teammates what was possible if they kept fighting.

If you want to inspire others, you cannot just talk about your vision.  You must live it.  Bellingham’s pronouncing, “I want to be the leader of this team,” was not just words.  He backed it up with his performance.

3. Embrace Responsibility

Leadership comes with a weightiness.  There is an expectation to perform under pressure, to deliver when it matters most.  Bellingham didn’t shy away from this responsibility.  He embodied the pride and confidence a leader must have, even in challenging moments.

Leaders do not wait for permission to lead.  They step up, take ownership of the situation, and demonstrate the values they stand for.  As Bellingham put it, “This is the mentality that our fans deserve.”

Leadership is a choice to embrace responsibility and serve others with excellence.  Whether it is your colleagues, customers, or community, they deserve your best effort.

The Call to Lead

Jude Bellingham’s heroic performance was not just about winning a game; it was about embodying the qualities of a leader. Rising above adversity, inspiring through action, and embracing responsibility are the cornerstones of leadership.

If you want to lead, take Bellingham’s words to heart: “When you have this badge on your shirt, you can never give up.”  Adapt that mentality in your life and leadership, and watch how you inspire others to follow.

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Brian Dodd

Brian Dodd is the author and content coordinator for Brian Dodd On Leadership. In addition to overseeing this site's content, Brian is Director of New Ministry Partnerships for INJOY Stewardship Solutions where he helps churches develop cultures of generosity. Brian has also authored the critically-acclaimed book The 10 Indispensable Practices Of The 2-Minute Leader.